Tis the season to be jolly…but not this year. With COVID keeping family away, concerts cancelled, and traditional gatherings on hold, I only have my grandmother’s advice to find a way through such a bland time. She was a noble lady n a strained marriage with two children to raise during another depressing era in American history. Her Wisdom:When a big sorrow cuts your life in two it is well to muster little joys to aid and distract you while the hurt heals. As the hands toil so is the spirit raised above the troubled motions of the mind.